APPLICATION OF BUDDHIST PRINCIPLES TO REDUCE DIVORCE

Abstract

This article aims to explore the causes and impacts of divorce in Thailand and propose the application of Buddhist principles to mitigate divorce-related issues. The study examines statistical data, analyzes research findings on causes and consequences of divorce, and explores relevant Buddhist teachings in relation to the problem. The results indicate that key factors contributing to divorce include communication breakdown, infidelity, and financial difficulties. Divorce has wide-ranging effects on individuals and society, particularly in terms of emotional well-being, economic stability, and child development.

The application of Buddhist principles to reduce divorce problems is proposed in three stages: (1) Marriage preparation through the Six Directions (Disadhāma) and Four Principles for Harmonious Living (Samājīvitadhamma), (2) married life guided by the Four Virtues for Laypeople (Gharavāsadhamma), and (3) nurturing love through the Four Bases of Social Solidarity (Saṅgahavatthu). These principles foster understanding and reduce conflict in relationships.

Solving divorce problems based on their causes should begin with kind communication (Piyavācā), mutual support and selflessness (Cāga), loyalty and contentment with one's partner (Sacca), adaptability to social change (Dama), choosing a compatible partner and learning together (Paññā-sampadā and Dama), avoiding harmful behaviors and practicing patience (Khanti), taking responsibility for child-rearing (Cāga), and using technology wisely (Dama). Applying these teachings in marital life can help reduce divorce rates and strengthen spousal relationships, guided by the principle.